Love Realizations.

Since Valentine’s Day is coming up soon I thought I would post something to inspire those who may be going through a difficult breakup or are experiencing heartache. If this is you then be gentle with yourself and allow yourself to go through the motions.  Often we want to avoid our emotions especially when it comes to love and just be completely over the relationship. However it doesn’t always happen that way! Experiencing those emotions and feelings are essential to your growth and to heal effectively. You may be scared of what will happen now that the relationship is over. What will you do next? How will you ever move on?  Don’t let fear or these questions stop you from taking care of you and loving yourself. Perhaps even reflect back on the time when you first fell in love. They say first loves are the hardest to get over. How did you do get over it then? What can you learn from your first breakup to help you now?

I recently read somewhere that relationships happen for a reason, a season, or a lifetime.  People will come into your life for a specific purpose whether it is to teach you something or maybe you are supposed to teach them something. Once their purpose in your life is done its time to simply let go and move on. There isn’t any point or purpose in holding on to a relationship that is just not there anymore. Often times we stay in a relationship because we are afraid of the unknown and are comfortable with the familiar (even when the familiar can be detrimental to our very self-worth and self-esteem). Remember that to attract something better you have to be willing to let go of the familiar. I know it’s easier said than done but you owe to yourself to attract the right person who is truly meant to be there for a lifetime. Trust in your decision to move forward and remember to love yourself first or in the words of Ru Paul, “If you don’t love yourself, how in the hell you gonna love somebody else?”  Happy Valentine’s Day! 🙂

Every moment is a new opportunity. How are you taking advantage of it?

  Every second of every minute is a chance. A chance to change what you have always done. A chance to stand up for what you want. What are your dreams? What do you want to see happen in your future? How can you make those dreams and visions happen? Tell the Universe what you ideally want to manifest in your life. Envision your dreams and surrender it to the Universe. See what happens and then take action. Continue this process until it all unfolds the way you want it to and most importantly trust, trust, trust that it will.