There are going to be moments where everything will feel completely chaotic. In these moments it will feel as if everything that can go wrong has going wrong. Perhaps this is you right now or maybe you can remember a time in your life when your world was turned upside-down.
When our lives shift so suddenly many times we can feel as though we are being punished. We may will feel the urge to blame something, anything outside of us. I know I have been there. It was as if anything I tried to make happen would just hit a wall and manifest into something completely unexpected. It could be anything from losing the someone via relationship, death, career concerns, family, friends.
Have you ever experienced this? It’s in these moments where sometimes it could feel as if our very world is ending. It’s hard to look at the situation from the outside and try to see if there is something deeper happening.
Our experiences will always be a part of us unless of course we have a sudden case of amnesia. It can be hard to deal with life especially when everything feels so chaotic and nothing right is happening.
Recently I heard someone say that these moments of chaos sometimes bring about the greatest changes in our lives and also teach us some very powerful lessons. It can be the very thing we needed to wake us up from remaining stagnant. It can also lead us to learning about ourselves and closer to our life purpose.
For example, the loss of a loved one via a relationship can be very devastating and emotionally-crippling. However, there may be a reason as to why the relationship needed to end. The loss of the relationship may have taught you something powerful about yourself or what you really are looking for in future relationships.
Whatever chaos you may have faced at the time was and is not enjoyable but sometimes chaos can bring forth great changes in ourselves and our lives. These changes may lead us closer to the essence of who we are and what our truths are as individuals.
Try to see it as an opportunity to learn something that may help you and those around you.