It’s so easy to make plans in life. We live each day with a certain expectation and routine that we sort of already know what is to come. But what happens when our routine is disrupted by an unexpected event or circumstance?
Being a New Yorker, there are constant unexpected detours and changes throughout the day with commuting and subway issues to apartment problems. Just recently I was away and returned to my apartment flooded due to a frozen pipe that burst. Needless to say I was extremely irritated and annoyed that my entire schedule had to be reworked including where I was going to sleep because they were working on fixing the walls.
I asked those questions every person who experiences a tiny or large disaster asks, “Why me? What did I do Universe? What am I supposed to learn from this?”. Granted everything in my apartment was okay and is going to be okay, it’s just one of those things that made me question what was I doing to attract this energy in my life.
Luckily, friends offered their houses to me and I stayed with a friend for the weekend while repairs were done to my apartment. During my staycation away from home I realized a few things unexpected and unforeseen circumstances can teach us or at least taught me.
1. Take everything in stride
We can’t control everything that happens to us be it a breakup or a natural disaster. When it’s happening our worlds may feel turned upside down but just remember everything happens for a reason. Keep calm and take it in stride meaning don’t allow it to have so much emotional influence on you. Relax and try to see some of the positives.
2. Let go and let ‘God’.
I’m not a particularly religious person but I am spiritual and do believe there is a God-like energy in all of us, that we are all one and co-create with the universe. There is magic in letting go of a particular circumstance and surrendering it to God, Universe, source energy, whatever you want to call it.
Do the best you can with what you have and the rest leave it up to the Universe to orchestrate. There is magic behind every perceived negative event that occurs in our lives even if we don’t see it right away.
3. Ride the wave of change.
I’m an extremely disciplined person and it takes a lot for me to just calm down and relax my mind without thinking of the next step. It’s hard for me to accept change as it comes without thinking I’m being punished for something. When change comes embrace the good and bad feelings that may come. Initially it may all feel like a shock to the system but I’m sure there will positives to every change that arrives. Just ride it and see where it takes you.
4. Have fun & do your best.
Lastly, enjoy the journey. Wherever this is taking you, see it for what it is and do your best. Nothing in life is permanent. Allow yourself the opportunity to be open to where it leads and what new experiences will come from it.
“What can we take on trust in this uncertain life? Happiness, greatness, pride — nothing is secure, nothing keeps.”